Everyone makes mistakes once in a while, but there are many children that cannot tell the difference between right and wrong. They grow up in a world with no rules and subsequently realize that they have made many wrong decisions that led them to undesirable moments in life. They have not only underestimated their parents but also ruined their lives by not listening to parents and not following the rules while they were young.
Therefore parents should be allowed to hit their children to correct their behavior because the children might get out of hand, they might have no respect for their parents, and hitting them reasonably might be the only way the children will follow the regulations. This is the answer for a parent that loves and wants the best for his/her children, disciplined is necessary on all children. If children are taught and disciplined at a young age then they will not run free like wild animals. When I was a child my parents used to smack me when I was naughty.
Today I consider myself a decent member of society. If I would have been allowed to get away with misbehaving when I was a child I would not have turned out the same. All children need to be physically disciplined when they are growing up in order to learn the rights and wrongs of society and culture. This way parents will also be able to control them. For example, if you compare a teenager that has been closely controlled and a teen that does whatever they want, the adolescent that has been regimented will always grow brighter. A well-disciplined juvenile will know rules and live by those regulations.
Children should be closely controlled when they are still young so as they grow they could still be able to be kept under control. Parents should always show the children that parents are the authority. I have seen a child say to their parent “I do not care what you say; I will go to the club. ” The juvenile feels that he/she does not have to follow any rules or listen to what their parents have to say because this teenager has not been disciplined enough. If the parent penalized them when this juvenile was young things would be different now. Once when I was walking up my street I saw a youngsters hit their parents out in public.
These specific actions prove to us instantaneously that these children have no respect for their parents. Once a child loses respect for their parents almost nothing can change that back except for physical discipline. How a child is disciplined will vary from child to child. For some, being sent to their room is sufficient but for others it is not. A child should only be smacked if it is done out of love and not anger or hatred. For example, if you tell a 9 year old that curfew ends at 5 pm and they come home at 10 pm, a responsible parent will smack promptly, as soon as disobedience is shown and warnings have failed.
I see many teenagers that smoke, drink, and do drugs and their parents do not care if they keep on doing that. Why? The answer is either the parents buy them the drugs or they give it to their kids because the parents do them also, or the parents do not know anything at all. If parents care about their children and want to stop them from doing dangerous things then a slap on a backside becomes useful, but as soon as it becomes more than a temporary stinging sensation and actually causes bruising or other damage is when it becomes abuse. Therefor children should only be logically disciplined not abused.
Parents love their children very much. They want their children to become somebody, have a nice job and be proud of themselves and the decisions they have made in life. Parents only hit their children to stop their children from getting in trouble and disrespecting them. Parents should think of the force they use on their child before they do it, because when the pain grows the punishment is not called physical discipline anymore but physical abuse. Lastly children should be careful with the decisions they make because parental discipline is always going to follow them wherever and whenever wrong decisions are made.