Being respectful is really
important to function a society effectively. The world can’t function without
it. Respect is our inner Beauty that makes us
beautiful from heart. Being respectful to others
is seen as the sign of nice person.
Being respected shows our manners. Respect is not only shown
in conversations, but we can show respect by
doing good work, behaving properly, controlling anger in public, loving who are
smaller than us, being nice to adults, understanding things without anyone need
to say to, maintaining reputation of our family, understanding our duties,
etc. Respect is everywhere and every second.
We all respect to ourselves and to
others who is important for us, sometimes from heart, sometimes as a formality.
We respect our parents and family from heart. We don’t hurt them. So, I think
where is love, there is respect. There are problems in a family, but that can
be solved with patience and respect. Conflict with parents about the decision
of life of their child is very commonly seen in teenagers. They always think we are right and have correct
decisions, but sometimes they are passionate. Parents always want happiness for
their children, cannot make any wrong decision that can ruin their children’s
lives. Sometimes their experiences make them against us and our decisions, but
that all are for our goodness. They can bear out hatefulness, but never take
any decision for our bad.
Sometimes we respect
others for our selfishness, because we know that we will get, what we give. We
respect others “To to be respected. To be taken seriously. To
feel relevant. To be considered worthy. To be noticed. Not to be treated with
Need for Respect.”). We respect others and be nice to people for own
benefits, even though we hate a person. We are pressured to show respect
otherwise they have power to ruin our future and standard in society. For example,
being rude and arguing with boss at job may result in losing a job or if you are a boss, being nice to employees and colleagues
might affect the quality of their work and their view towards you as good person.
can be solved easily with respect. Being rude to each other might make an issue
bigger than it is. Although, I’m not saying that we
shouldn’t raise over voice against wrong and share our views against anyone, we
should do. We should fight for truth and good of people. We should go against
people we love, powerful people, elderly people if we are going for good. Sometimes
we have to sacrifice things for truth. However, we can disagree with
people respectfully and in mannerly way by listening to their thoughts and
trying to understand their views without just arguing.
We wanted to
be respected by others. It hurts when someone says something rudely and
disrespectfully. There is when our manners come in and a person’s true nature
can be identified. We should be clam, control our feelings, think wisely, and
behave properly at that point because feeling of embarrassment makes us to do
something weird in public, sometimes emotions are the reason.
Some people understand that
being respectful is a sign of incapability to do any work and they allow the
points to which they disagree with to proceed. They don’t understand a small difference
between kindness and respect. So, they don’t realize how to behave and talk to
each other. They behave disrespectfully without any reason and don’t admit that
others are hurt.
The United States of America is a developed and diversified country
and it is becoming a “minority majority nation.” Minorities and immigrants are
also the part of economy and they also fulfil their duty for the betterment of
our nation (Samovar
et al. 4-5). So, we should also behave respectfully to them as they are also
humans and want to be respected and treat them equally as others.
I can’t imagine a society without respect. Society can’t function
properly if there is not respect. Not any relationship will be stable including
between a boss and employees, between coworkers and peers, between parents and children,
between relatives, between people and government, etc. The society will be
disorganized and hard to control. People respect others for whatever reason,
but we can’t deny the importance of respect for progress of a society.